Numerous toxic relationships begin looking too good to be true. So remaining alert and watching out for fascinating rhetoric can prevent future issues.
Being in love and being reciprocated is probably the best
feelings in life. However, the euphoria of a new relationship can blind us to potential
indications of future trouble. Have you ever been with somebody who at first
seemed too good to be true and later found that individual was highly toxic? In
many cases when a relationship fails and we try to understand what has occurred,
it is easy to think that there were no warning signs. But the warnings of a
relationship are almost always there from the start.
Some people use flattering and highly appealing romantic manner
of speaking to gain the trust and love of another. But, unfortunately not
everything is what it seems to be. That loving and impeccable aura can be the
way that individual finds to lower your guard and then show you who you really
are.
Here are 7 romantic phrases that may indicate that you
have fallen in love with a wolf in sheep's clothing.
1.
I've never been so happy like this!
All relationships , even the most problematic, start with
full happiness. What's more, if your current partner has had other
relationships before, you've probably felt that same delight and euphoria from
the beginning. Also, the individual who gives you all the credit for your
happiness today is the same person who will blame you for your sadness and
anger in the future.
2. I
don't know what I would do with my life without you
At first, you may feel better and appreciated if you hear
this phrase. But be careful. She can be a sign that you are with a needy
individual. Healthy relationships are adjusted. The two individuals chose to be
together, but they know that they can live very well alone. They are autonomous,
have their own fantasies, individual projects and worth independence.
3.
You are so different from my ex. What a relief!
Speaking ill of a previous partner and recounting details
of past relationships is disrespectful and adds nothing to the current
relationship. Also, in the future that individual can make the same comment
again if they break up with you. This phrase may also show that he is playing
the comparison game, which is not a good thing. Every individual is
extraordinary. Every relationship is unique. What's more, if you compare him in
a positive manner today, maybe in the future you can make a negative
comparison, saying, for example, “My ex-partner cooked better than you and I cherished
it!
4.
You are perfect!
We all know that nobody is perfect . In relationships
that work, every individual is loved and accepted not because they are perfect
but because they have many qualities that exceed their weak points. Also, in
real relationships there is space for making mistakes and experiencing
forgiveness . There is room to grow together as individuals. If your new
partner thinks of you as great, ask yourself: “Do I want to be with someone who
has invented an idealized and unrealistic version of me or do I prefer to be
with a partner who cherishes the real me?
5.
Between us there are secrets. Can we share our passwords?
Trust is the foundation of any relationship and we should
never exceed the limits of each other's privacy. If your new partner asks you
for your mobile, bank card, email and social media passwords, it can be a method
of wanting to control a world that only belongs to you. Moreover, it is a
strong sign of insecurity and can also be an indication of low self-esteem.
6. I
want to spend all my time with you
Possessiveness and even abusive tendencies are frequently
not detected early because in the captivation stage it is common for both
parties to want to be as close as possible. However, from the beginning of the
relationship it is important to have space to be with other people or do some movement
alone. If your partner requests total exclusivity or is concerned when you are
not together, it can be a sign of excessive attachment that can lead to numerous
problems in the future.
7.
How important am I to you?
We all like to hear that we are important and adored, but
if every five minutes your new partner asks you for proof of love, it is very
likely that you are insecure and jealous. Unhealthy jealousy usually seems like
interesting, passionate, and love- driven acts at first, but in the long run
it's exhausting and toxic.